Why Men Hate Valentine’s Day

Valentine's Day

Valentines Day is fast approaching – the time of year that florists and card shop owners rejoice, whilst the rest of us cringe with dread.

One wonders who hates Valentine’s Day more – the man trying to find something suitably romantic for his partner or the guy who receives nothing and ends the day unloved… and locked up for stalking.

So, for a man, how does a typical Valentine’s Day shopping trip turn out…

It’s February the 13th and you’ve left it late. It’s Valentine’s Day tomorrow and you’ve put the dreaded shopping trip off as long as you can. Your prayers for a nuclear holocaust have gone unanswered. What’s more, your clever scheme to coat the 2010 calendar in dog food didn’t work either. Your hungry dog, Charlie, ignored it and chewed through your favourite pair of slippers instead. There’s only one thing for it, you’re going to have to go out shopping.

So, what should you buy? You’re going to need one hell of a romantic gesture to beat last year’s effort. Spelling “I love you Catharine Elizabeth Alexandra Mackenzie” in your own blood, whilst bungee jumping from a crane, resulted in a month in the Intensive Care ward. You can only blame yourself… for choosing a partner with such a long name. On the plus side, the effort did win you immense respect (from other men).

Not only do you have to contend with bettering last year, but you also have to out-romance your partner’s best friend. A week hardly goes by without your partner’s friend bragging about the romantic gestures that her husband makes, and your partner thinks nothing of mentioning them to you in conversation. The cow (that’s aimed at the friend, obviously, not your partner!).

The Card Shop

(the easiest part of the shopping expedition… supposedly)

So, what message should you look for in a Valentine’s Day card? If you’re in a relationship, you’re looking for a card that gives the message “I love you more than life itself,” without going over the top. If you’re playing the field a bit, you’re looking for the card that says “you are the one and only,” in a ‘buy one, get one free’ offer…

You walk into the card shop and are immediately greeted by a sea of red Valentine’s Cards, going on as far as the eye can see. The last time you saw this amount of red concentrated in one place was when you drunkenly knocked a bottle of Merlot on to your friend’s carpet (and proceeded to try and lick it up). Standing in front of the abundant rows of cards are lines of confused-looking men, scratching their heads, leaning to one side and dribbling from one side of the mouth. You walk over to join them. At this point one of two things happen:

  1. You pick up the first card, open it and find it has the perfect message:

    I bought this Valentine’s card at the store, in hope that, later, you’d be my whore.

    OR

    Through all the things that came to pass, our love has grown… but so’s your ass.

    OR

    Our love will never become cold and hollow, unless, one day, you refuse to swallow!

    Thinking, “wow, that was easy,” you make your way to pay.

  2. You pick up card after card, but can’t find one that looks right or conveys the right message. What’s more, every card seems to read like a miniature novel on how your love life should be, but isn’t. If you plump for a card at random, you know fully well that she’ll be thinking “he didn’t really make an effort with this one, did he?” After two and a half hours of looking, with legs wobbling and brain rotting, you opt for the best one that you can find – a £20 gold-patterned card with a pig on it (let’s hope she doesn’t think you’re calling her one).

Choosing a Present

Right, so, you’ve bought the card. Now you have to think about a present…

Flowers

Flowers are a good option for your loved one for Valentine’s Day (and they represent your relationship well – after a while they wither and die). Now then, would she prefer red, yellow, white or pink and how much should you spend?

Chocolates

Ordinarily, chocolates would make a good present. But you know fully well that she’ll only scoff the lot and then ask you the question “do you think I look fat?” two days later.

Lingerie

A romantic idea. However, you’ll only get the wrong size and, besides, the last time you tried to buy lingerie you were thrown out for ogling the breasts of the sales girls.

Dinner

You could take her out for dinner. But you’ve left it late and all the decent restaurants have been booked up already. So, it’s either a meal at the local greasy spoon or a take-away kebab.

There’s always the romantic thought of cooking her dinner. But last time you cooked beans on toast you accidentally destroyed her favourite saucepan and set fire to Charlie. She’d never forgive you if you did that again, and neither would Charlie (what’s left of him).

Conclusion

It looks pretty hopeless – you’d better find yourself a bungee cord and a crane (I suggest you just draw a heart this year and forget about her name!).

1 thought on “Why Men Hate Valentine’s Day

  1. Ah yes, sounds very familiar!

    The situation’s much better in Japan; on Valentine’s day, only women give to the men. The men don’t have to give anything except, perhaps, thanks for what they’ve received.

    The men then have a whole month until “White day”, on March 14th, when they’re supposed to return cards/gifts etc to the women from whom valentines gifts were received. Much easier!

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